Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Nudge It Baby! Nudge It!

Okay, Im not preaching...just sharing!


A 91-year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her for a very long time. "If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"

God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us. It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God. This confused the woman, so God began to explain:

"When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts. Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always appreciate what you have. You never know when you might lose it. Never take your friends or family for granted, because today and sometimes only this very moment is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it's the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act, instead base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back. But don't turn your back on love, because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts. Times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life's experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations. By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."

Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from man's good deeds. God replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift He has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson. The woman's curiosity deepened. God, once again began to explain:

"When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!"

Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right direction!

-- Author Unknown

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Trululu?

People say God bless you when you sneeze...


...because when you sneeze, your heart stops for a millisecond...


...if you sneeze too hard, you can fracture a rib...


...if you try to suppress a sneeze, you can rupture a blood vessel in your head, or in your neck & you could die...


Just goes to show how we entrust even the smallest things to God...


It is a psychological fact that...


...all emotional pain only last for 12 minutes...anything after that is already self-inflicted...


 


 

Mga na ukay ukay ko sa tabi tabi

From Philippine Star, Horoscope by Holiday Mathis


For the Leo (July 23-Aug 22). Introspection brings a realization. Carl Jung said that your vision will only become clear when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside awakens.


From Avi, through sms


"If you could sum up all the causes of hurt, pain and hatred in one word, its just...EXPECTATIONS. 


From Sir Chris, through sms


A great life is not about routine but doing something rare...to cherish and not to compare...to forgive and not to blame & to be loving without counting...


Laugh at your mistakes but learn from them.Joke over your troubles but gather strength from them. Have fun with your difficulties but overcome them.


And finally from me, just my jaded observation


People have really taken to heart this year of the lechon (they did say its the year of the fire pig) that almost everyone is making a pig out of themselves (in every sense of the word that may apply to us so-called homo sapiens).


 

Saturday, March 10, 2007

Rejoinders

I received some forwarded sms messages that managed to provoke my thoughts to come up with, what I feel are, apt rejoinders...


From Avi...


You have to remember that there is no such thing as a PERFECT relationship. Don't bring up there mistakes every time as if they are not humans. Remember that you don't actually accept your love one of who she really is if you cant even accept her mistakes. FORGIVING and FORGETTING is a nice rule to follow. Remember that if you don't know how to forget, you DON'T really know how to understand. And if you don't know how to understand, YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW HOW TO LOVE


My reply...


Forgiving and forgetting may be the same or part and parcel of each other but in so many ways they are light years apart. In some cases, they exist in a parallel universe; together in one plane of existence but separated by time and space. It will take enormous effort, courage, strength and selflessness to be able to take a step to get to either point.


From Sir Chris...


Learned...that when you plan to get even with someone, you're only letting that person continue to hurt you...


...that ignoring that facts do not change the facts...


...that easiest way to grow as a person is to surround yourself with people smarter than you are...


...that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them...


...that life is tough but you can be tougher...


My reply...


Be that as it may, for at least a moment in time, you will feel an immense and overwhelming satisfaction that you were able to deal that person a blow as painful or even worse, which is much better, truly, since we are on the subject of revenge, as the one she/he has given you. And that is PRICELESS!


The person you love becomes perfect because you see his/her imperfections perfectly and not because love is blind!


From Ate Marie...


Be thankful you don't have everything you desire, if you did what would there be to look forward too?


Be thankful for the difficult times, its during those times that you grow...


Be thankful for your limitations because they give you opportunities for improvement...


Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.


Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, & they can become your (greatest) blessings!


My reply...


Amen!

Wednesday, March 07, 2007

Thought for the week

TEMPTATION usually comes in through a door that has been left DELIBERATELY open


by Arnold Glasow


from Reader's Digest March 2007 issue

Sunday, March 04, 2007

Things you wont see in our local newspapers



 


 

I suppose that must have hurt!

 



Tsk! Que horror!


Way to go Sooty! You're the man...uhhh...errrmm...pig...guinea pig!



Lesson learned: Foreplay and cooking don't mix!



 

Friday, March 02, 2007

Sharing the Blessing

The short prayer is just so nice not to be shared...


May today there be peace within you. May you trust God
that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May
you not forget the infinite possibilities that are
born of faith. May you use those gifts that you have
received, and pass on the love that has been given to
you. May you be content knowing you are a child of
God...Let His presence settle into your bones, and
allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and
love. It is there for each and every one of us.


Hope everyone had a blessed day!